What is Family Mediation?

Family  Mediation is an assisted negotiation.  It is an alternative to trying to solve a conflict on your own. It is also an alternative to going to court.  Mediation is a process for problem solving. Settlement between two people in conflict is the ultimate goal. Family “Mediation is when two…

Parental abduction feared by the Courts

Many divorced parents wish to travel with their children internationally, to visit family and friends.  However, parental abduction is feared by the Courts.   A recent New Westminster court decision (E033145; June 12, 2015) outlines the reasons why a parent may have their application to travel declined.  That reason involves…

Missed School Prompts Change in Custody

BC court finds school attendence a major factor in a change in custody. A June 2015 B.C. family court case judgement  shows the importance of a child’s attendance at school, when parents disagree who the child should live with. The 11 year old boy, “BG”, had been living primarily with his…

Shared Parenting works well for Children

Shared parenting provides longterm stability and better health. However, Many divorced parents worry that having children shuttle between homes can be stressful for their children.  However, a newly released Swedish study of of nearly 150,000 tweens and teens has found that children with a shared parenting arrangment actually cope better than…

Pink Concert blamed for bad parenting

A New Jersey father used a Pink Concert to try and persuade a family court judge that his ex-wife was a bad parent, in a family court case released April 25, 2015. The Pink concert was the final straw for father, C.Z. He and mother D.Z., were engaged in protracted litigation…

Top 5 Myths About Child Custody

MYTH #1.  ” Mothers always get custody of the children.” TRUTH:  Joint Custody/Guardianship is the most common arrangement when the parents are separated.  This may not mean equal parenting time, but both parents will be involved in making major decisions for their children. MYTH #2.  “I have to fight to…